Minzgruen wrote: Mrs.Takagi wrote:I'm starting to believe that all the reports and rumors are true. . .younger Japanese men really aren't interested in women all that much. . . .
Hmm, wonder if that's true, too. You don't see Japanese Ikemen with women very often. But that's also because of their managements, I think. They are not allowed to date women - and that's, by the way, quite ... unfair. But that's Japan, that's another world. And I also think that they don't care very much. Look how busy they are, always traveling around Japan, stageplays here, dorama shooting there ... they just don't have time for any girlfriend.
Perhaps that's the same with "normal" Japanese guys?
Maybe it's also different, because Japanese men ARE very shy. It's quite a surprise when there's someone here my age, who doesn't have a girlfriend/boyfriend.
...or maybe they are gay after all, who cares, anyway? xD'
I seriously don't know what's up with Japanese men. . .they can be so hot and manly and cool that I just wanna marry one as fast as humanly possible.
Then other times they seem to have these personality traits that make want to grab 'em by the collar and shake 'em!!
They are seriously SOOOO passive compared to Western ( and particuarly) American men. For example, at the right time in the right place in a crowded place, and in the right outfit guys here will usually come and try to chat me up. . .it'll get them nowhere because I'm not interested in them of course. . .
but they'll at least make the effort you know, they're more aggressive in their approach to women.
Japanesse men seem to prefer to drag their feet and take their sweet time
I mean, don't get me wrong, shy guys can be totally cute (especially shy guys like Manpei) but I find it frustrating if/when men can't come out and truly say whats on their minds or in their hearts. Whether what they have to say is good or bad, I still want to hear it, you know?
I was JUST reading this article online not 48 hours ago (and I can't believe I didn't save it) about the martial status with Japanese people over the last decade or so. I can't remember all the details because it was kind of long, but the article basically said that one of the reasons Japanese men (roughly under the age of 40) aren't interested in dating/marriage is because the roles of women in Japan have changed: they are going to school, having careers and have high paying jobs, etc. Then one man in the interview claimed that
"Japanese women are too picky nowadays".Another crazy stat from the article, divorce rates in Japan are relatively low but married couples having affairs are quite common
So maybe it's fair to say that Japanese women aren't interested in the men anyway, so it's like tit-for-tat really. . .but I seriously still don't get it. . .
As for them possibly being gay? It wouldn't surprise me either way lol I mean, I seriously wonder about all these plays and TV shows that have an all male cast. . .the guys just spending weeks together from morning til night. . .going out drinking and to the bath-houses. . .sometimes I wonder what really goes on. . .
There are a couple of other ikemen actors I follow (hard to believe, I know) and in their blogs they'll mention stuff like
"Well I live alone and I often get lonely, so I'll invite one or two of my friends over, and we'll go out to the onsen, then come back home to drink and play games, then we fall asleep together on the futon. . ." It's just amusing to me because you'll hardly ever hear a story like that from American actors LOL I know a lot of companies have rules about their talents not being allowed to date but. . .seriously, is it really possible that
Stardust has forbidden 26-year-old twins from dating? They mentioned in an interview once that they went on a double-date even, but perhaps it was just a one time thing?
(I've noticed that the Japanese have a slightly different take on what it means to "date" someone.)
Maybe the twins
do date and just aren't allowed to mention it to fans?
Or maybe. . .and I'm hoping this is the case. . . all they care about is acting and each other and they couldn't care less about dating women right now. . .which is a perfect arrangement if you ask me
Minzgruen wrote: And this ... Kyaaaaaaaaaah, that's just so cute. Excuse me while I go die happy now ...
OOOOOOHHHHHH. . . .DAT FACE!!!!
Why is Shinpei so good at making faces??
I seriously just want to cup his face and my hand and just squeeze it until all the sugar and candy and prizes fall out!!